Halloween is all about treats, some good laughs and costumes! Some people might go trick-or-treating, some might go to a party. Whatever you or others are doing this Halloween it’s always good to be safe and attentive. Let’s go over some tips to keep you and loved ones informed this holiday!
Halloween costumes do not equal consent.
This holiday many dress up as a character, an animal or anything their heart desires. Costumes DO NOT give consent because someone is dressing up a certain way. Also Halloween does not give anyone consent to touch someone else without permission. Sexual comments to someone dressed up is non-consensual and is unnecessary. Furthermore, dressing up is not an invitation to harass, bother or invade someone else’s boundaries.
Think about your words and actions.
Halloween may be fun and exciting for you, but may not be for others. Some individuals who are survivors may be triggered or have fear of situations. Making sure to be aware of how you speak, act and react can be beneficial for others around.
“Don’t feel pressured to engage in anything you aren’t truly comfortable with. An invitation to a haunted house with friends might bring along a sense of social pressure to attend, but it’s absolutely okay to decline if you have any concerns or anticipate it may be an unpleasant experience. Activities like apple picking, hayrides, and pumpkin patches can be great alternatives.
You do not have to open your door for anyone at any time — even trick-or-treaters. If you feel triggered or if you experience fear or hyper-alertness, consider leaving a bowl of candy outside with a note that says “please do not knock.” Or simply turn off your porch lights, as choosing to not participate is completely acceptable. Halloween is meant to be fun for everyone — if it creates stress, fear, or anxiety, you have the right to opt out.”1
Whether you are out and about, watching a scary movie or just hanging out, remember to practice self care – if you start feeling anxious in a situation, pay attention to those feelings, YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. We hope that these tips and treats gave you and others some insight for a safe, fun and consensual Halloween.
References:
1Halloween can be complicated: Remember self care. National Sexual Violence Resource Center. (n.d.-a).
https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/halloween-can-be-complicated-so-remember-self-care
2Pecoraro, A. (2021, December 15). My costume is not consent. NWA Center for Sexual Assault.